Sunday, February 24, 2008

Ned is Dead Again



Our "Ned is Dead" group met again this past weekend. This is a group of 6 couples that met in Everett, Washington in 1978. We lived in the same ward, served together and served each other, had children together and helped each other raise each others kids. We have kept in touch for all these years and get together every two years. We all take turns hosting and planning the event. Events in the past have included a weekend in Aspen, a trip to Lake Powell, and Estes Park in Colorado. John and Connie Woodward (seated) are leaving for a mission to Ghana next Monday. So this was a reunion and a farewell. We laughed, updated each other on our families, enjoyed very delicious food, and cried together. Most importantly, we bore testimony to each other of faith and tender mercies that are part of our lives everyday.

I have always wondered about the name of our group and even have thought it a bit morbid. However, I finally heard the origin of this title. Many (and I mean many) years ago in an old Mutual manual there was a list of ideas for Halloween activities and one was titled Ned is Dead. The group grabbed the name and started meeting on Halloween every year. As time passed, many of us moved and then we started meeting every two years.

I would have liked to have posted photos of us in the early days, but did not have any. It doesn't really matter because as we discussed what we would like to do in two years, it became very apparent that in our minds we are still the same young adventurous group we ever were. We threw out ideas such as build a house for a humanitarian project or float the river and sleep on shore in the Grand Canyon. The photos wouldn't really do any good. In two more years we will probably settle for a cruise to somewhere warm and sunny. But for now the "Ned is Dead" group is alive and kicking and feeling young again.

6 comments:

Audrey said...

I think you all look very young and vibrant. You are very lucky to have such good friends, and to have had them for all these years! I have memories of you having these couples over to our house in Washington for parties. We had to stay upstairs and be quiet. You ordered us pizza, and if we were really good, we got to come down later and have an "after 8" dinner mint. Oh & then there was that time we got lost with the Wall girls and came back all muddy...

Bree D. said...

It is so wonderful that you all still keep in touch and are such good friends. You inspire Jerianne and I to keep our friendship going just as long!

Linda Clark said...

What a great thing to keep going. I remember you talking about these wonderful friends over the years. Keeping in touch with cherished friends is such an important thing. I just talked to my friend LesLee Neal from Yakima on Sunday for about an hour. She always asks about you and your family. (You look the cutest and the youngest, by the way!)

Jessica said...

I agree with Aunt Linda! You and Dad do a great job on looking great. I'm glad you guys have that time to catch up and reminisce about old times. What a fun event!

Kari said...

Hi, Paulene--
I'm just browsing, hope you don't mind me commenting! (Kari, from Christmas Eve this past Christmas--) That is so great, to keep in touch with your group! And the name is very fun. My vote for the next trip is a cruise around the islands of Greece. And if you want to stay "closer," my mom is going to Copper Canyon next week, Mexico's Grand Canyon equivalent.

Kathleen Gauger said...

Wonderful to have so many good friends who have stayed together for so many years. Your evens sound really fun!